Kathleen Monahan met her future husband, Tim, after he left the seminary. Kathleen: Dad (her husband, Tim) was in the seminary, and he came out. I saw him walking, and it sounds really hokey, but I looked at him and I thought, “Oh. That guy could be the father of my children.”. And he was. The couple, who both worked in the social services, married and had five children who all grew up to be teachers.